Choosing a Real Estate Agent

Your agent will guide the biggest purchase of your life. Here's how to find one who actually works for your interests--not just their commission.

Phase 2: Foundation Stage 2.3: Pre-Approval Achievement

What You'll Learn

Most first-time buyers work with the very first agent they speak to--without interviewing anyone else. A good agent saves you money and stress; a bad one costs you both. This guide will help you find the right representation for your home purchase.

What a buyer's agent does and how they get paid
Key qualities to look for and red flags to avoid
Interview questions to ask potential agents
DFW-specific considerations for choosing an agent

What Is a Buyer's Agent?

A buyer's agent is a licensed real estate professional who represents YOUR interests in the home buying process. This is different from a listing agent (also called a seller's agent), who represents the seller.

What Your Buyer's Agent Does For You

  • Searches for homes that match your criteria, including off-market opportunities
  • Schedules showings and accompanies you to view properties
  • Provides market analysis to help you understand fair value
  • Writes and submits offers on your behalf
  • Negotiates price, repairs, closing costs, and other terms
  • Coordinates inspections and explains results
  • Guides you through closing and reviews all documents
  • Advocates for your interests throughout the entire process

Think of your buyer's agent as part consultant, part negotiator, part project manager, and part therapist. They've seen it all before and can help you navigate the emotional and logistical complexity of buying a home.

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Buyer's Agent vs. Listing Agent

The listing agent works for the seller. Their fiduciary duty is to get the best price and terms for the seller--which is the opposite of your goal as a buyer. Even if a listing agent is friendly and helpful, they legally cannot put your interests ahead of their client's (the seller). Using the listing agent to represent you (called "dual agency") is legal in Texas but creates an inherent conflict of interest.

How Real Estate Agents Get Paid

Good news: as a buyer, you typically don't pay your agent directly. Here's how it works:

The Traditional Model

When a home sells, the seller pays a total commission (historically around 5-6% of the sale price). This commission is split between the listing agent and the buyer's agent. So on a $400,000 home with a 6% commission, each agent might receive approximately $12,000 (minus their broker's share).

Recent Industry Changes (2024)

A recent court settlement has changed how commissions work. Key things to know:

  • Sellers can no longer be required to offer compensation to buyer's agents through the MLS (Multiple Listing Service)
  • Buyer's agent compensation is now negotiable and must be discussed upfront
  • You'll likely sign a buyer representation agreement before an agent can show you homes
  • In most cases, the seller or listing still offers buyer agent compensation as part of the deal
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What This Means For You

When interviewing agents, ask directly about compensation. Understand how your agent expects to be paid, what happens if a listing doesn't offer buyer agent compensation, whether you might need to negotiate compensation into your offer, and any fees you might be responsible for as a buyer.

When Should You Start Working With an Agent?

The right time to connect with an agent is after you have pre-approval but before you start seriously looking at homes.

Why Wait for Pre-Approval First
  • You'll know your budget, so your agent can focus on realistic options
  • You'll be taken more seriously by sellers and listing agents
  • Your agent's time is respected (they can help you effectively)
  • You're positioned to act quickly when you find the right home
Why Not Wait Until You Find a House
  • You might miss opportunities--good homes sell fast in DFW
  • You need guidance on what to look for (and what to avoid)
  • Understanding the market takes time
  • Building a relationship with your agent helps them serve you better

The Ideal Timeline

Get pre-approved, then immediately connect with a buyer's agent. Spend 1-2 weeks calibrating together (understanding your preferences, viewing a few properties, learning the market) before you get serious about making offers. In competitive DFW neighborhoods, this preparation pays off when you need to move fast.

What to Look for in a Buyer's Agent

Not all agents are created equal. Here's what separates the great ones from the rest:

Experience That Matters

  • Transaction volume: Look for agents who close at least 12-15 transactions per year
  • Buyer experience: Some agents primarily work with sellers--you want one who knows the buyer side
  • First-time buyer experience: They should be patient with questions and thorough with explanations
  • Local market knowledge: Deep familiarity with DFW neighborhoods, schools, and market trends
  • Negotiation track record: Ask about specific deals they've negotiated successfully

Communication Style

  • Responsiveness: Do they return calls/texts promptly? In hot markets, hours matter
  • Communication preferences: Text, email, phone, or app? Make sure you're compatible
  • Availability: Can they show homes when you're available?
  • Transparency: Do they explain things clearly without jargon?

Professional Credentials

  • Active license: You can verify at TREC's website
  • No complaints: Check for any disciplinary actions
  • Professional designations: ABR (Accredited Buyer's Representative) is specifically for buyer's agents
  • Continuing education: Good agents invest in ongoing training

The Intangibles

  • Patience: First-time buyers ask a lot of questions--that's normal and good
  • Honesty: Will they tell you when a house ISN'T right for you?
  • No pressure: Good agents educate; bad ones pressure
  • Problem-solving mindset: Deals hit snags--you want someone who finds solutions

Interview Questions for Potential Agents

Treat this like a job interview--because you're hiring someone for an important role. Here are essential questions to ask:

Experience Questions

  • "How many buyer transactions did you close last year?"
  • "How long have you been working in the DFW market?"
  • "Do you primarily work with buyers or sellers?"
  • "How many first-time homebuyers have you worked with?"
  • "Which neighborhoods do you know best?"

Process Questions

  • "Walk me through what working together looks like from start to close."
  • "How will you help me find homes? MLS only, or other sources too?"
  • "What's your communication style and response time expectation?"
  • "How do you handle multiple offer situations?"
  • "Who covers for you when you're unavailable?"

Compensation Questions

  • "How do you get compensated for helping buyers?"
  • "What if a listing doesn't offer buyer agent compensation?"
  • "What does your buyer representation agreement look like?"
  • "Are there any fees I should expect to pay directly?"

Market-Specific Questions

  • "What trends are you seeing in [specific DFW area] right now?"
  • "What's realistic for a buyer with my budget in this market?"
  • "How competitive is it right now for homes in my price range?"
  • "What do winning offers typically look like?"

Reference Questions

  • "Can you provide references from recent first-time buyer clients?"
  • "What do past clients say is your greatest strength?"
  • "Have you had any complaints filed against you?"
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Pay Attention to How They Answer

The way an agent responds is as important as what they say. Do they listen to your questions? Do they ask you questions in return? Do they seem genuinely interested in helping you, or just in closing a deal?

Red Flags: Signs of a Bad Agent

Watch out for these warning signs when interviewing or working with agents:

Pushy Behavior

  • Pressuring you to see homes before you're pre-approved
  • Rushing you to make offers before you're ready
  • Dismissing your concerns or questions
  • Pushing you toward the top of your budget
  • Getting defensive when you ask questions

Poor Communication

  • Slow to respond to calls, texts, or emails
  • Doesn't proactively share information
  • Talks AT you instead of WITH you
  • Can't or won't explain things in plain language
  • Hard to reach when you have questions

Lack of Professionalism

  • Bad-mouths other agents, clients, or properties
  • Doesn't have time for your questions
  • Seems disorganized or unprepared
  • Makes promises that sound too good to be true
  • Minimizes concerns about properties

Conflicts of Interest

  • Pushes you toward their own listings
  • Encourages dual agency without explaining risks
  • Seems more interested in the commission than your needs
  • Recommends only their "preferred" vendors without alternatives

Understanding Buyer Representation Agreements

Before an agent can show you homes, they'll ask you to sign a buyer representation agreement. This is now standard practice in Texas. Here's what you need to know:

What the Agreement Covers

  • The agent's duties to you
  • How long the agreement lasts
  • The geographic area covered
  • How the agent will be compensated
  • Your obligations as a client

Key Terms to Understand

  • Duration: Most agreements last 3-6 months; shorter terms are often negotiable
  • Exclusivity: Whether you can work with other agents during this period
  • Termination clause: How either party can end the agreement early
  • Compensation: How much and who pays the agent's fee
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Negotiation Tips

Start with a shorter term (30-60 days) until you've established rapport. Ensure there's a termination clause if the relationship isn't working. Get clarity on what happens if you find a home through a different source. Understand any fees you might owe if you terminate early.

Don't be afraid to ask questions about the agreement. A good agent will explain everything clearly and won't pressure you to sign something you don't understand.

Can You Switch Agents?

Yes--but it depends on your situation.

If You Haven't Signed an Agreement

You're free to work with whoever you choose. There's no obligation to continue with an agent you've spoken to or even viewed homes with if you haven't signed anything.

If You Have Signed an Agreement

Review the termination clause in your buyer representation agreement. Options typically include:

  • Mutual termination (both parties agree to end it)
  • Termination for cause (if the agent isn't fulfilling their duties)
  • Waiting for the agreement to expire
  • Paying a cancellation fee (if specified in the agreement)

When Switching Makes Sense

  • Your agent is unresponsive or hard to reach
  • They're not showing you suitable properties
  • You've lost trust or confidence in their abilities
  • There's a personality mismatch that's affecting the process
  • They're pressuring you in ways that feel uncomfortable
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How to Handle the Conversation

Be direct and professional. You might say: "I appreciate your help so far, but I don't think we're the right fit for each other. I'd like to discuss how to end our agreement so I can work with another agent." Most agents prefer a clean break over a dissatisfied client.

DFW-Specific Agent Considerations

The Dallas-Fort Worth market has unique characteristics that affect how you should evaluate agents:

Market Size and Specialization

DFW is massive--one of the largest metros in the country. An agent who knows Plano inside and out might not know much about Fort Worth or South Dallas. Look for agents who specialize in your target areas rather than generalists who claim to cover the entire metroplex.

New Construction Expertise

DFW has extensive new construction, especially in suburbs like Celina, Princeton, and Forney. If you're considering new builds, look for an agent experienced with builder negotiations--they're different from resale transactions and have unique pitfalls.

HOA Knowledge

Many DFW communities have HOAs with varying levels of restrictions and fees. A good local agent should know which HOAs are strict, which are well-managed, and which to avoid.

School District Familiarity

School districts significantly impact home values in DFW. Your agent should understand not just current ratings but district trends, boundary changes, and how schools affect resale.

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Commute Considerations

Traffic in DFW is no joke. An experienced agent will help you think through commute times realistically--including how different highways and routes affect your daily life.

Your Agent Search Action Plan

1

Get Referrals

Ask friends, family, and coworkers who've bought recently for recommendations. Online reviews can help, but personal referrals from people in similar situations are gold.

2

Interview Multiple Agents

Talk to at least 2-3 agents before deciding. This gives you comparison points and helps you understand what's normal.

3

Ask the Right Questions

Use the interview questions above. Pay attention to how agents communicate and whether they listen to your needs.

4

Check References and Credentials

Verify their license, check for complaints, and actually call the references they provide.

5

Understand the Agreement

Before signing anything, make sure you understand the terms, duration, and how to exit if needed.

6

Trust Your Gut

If something feels off, it probably is. You'll be working closely with this person for months--choose someone you actually like working with.

Key Takeaways

  • A buyer's agent represents YOUR interests--never work with a listing agent as your representative
  • Interview at least 2-3 agents before deciding, and don't be afraid to ask tough questions
  • Look for DFW-specific expertise, especially in your target neighborhoods
  • Understand the buyer representation agreement before signing--negotiate shorter terms if needed
  • Trust your instincts: if communication feels off during the interview, it won't improve later

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